:-(

[foxmonkey]

Feeling a little weird this morning, kinda sad weird, not creeped-out weird.

I was unfriended not too long ago by someone I liked, whose entries were interesting. Didn't realize how interesting until lately, when cruising through my friends list where I'd read a post and then see it was this person.

Didn't really hurt until this morning, when I was cruising around and saw another entry of hers and tooled through her journal then checked out her friends list. And now, looking at her friends list and how many friends we have in common, it seems personal, for some reason, when I was cool with it before. So, of course I'm wondering about the real reason I was unfriended, and kicking myself for caring.

Whatever. :-(

Eh, gimme a few hours and it'll pass.

Comments

[canalbaby.livejournal.com]

:::hugs:::

Had the same thing happen to me recently. Yeah, very sad/weird feelings.

[diggybear.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

[merryish.livejournal.com]

I wonder, though, if maybe people read too much into the technical aspect of who is friended and who isn't.

I know some people friends-lock posts; I almost did once, and then didn't, but the truth is it never occurs to me to do it. And so conversely, it never really occurs to me that others do it, too. And I don't just read my own friends page; I also read Kaneko's, and Sandy's, and Dacey's, and Rhys's. The reason I don't friend a lot of people is because I look at my own friends list and think, "Whoa, that's a lotta names. Kaneko already friended Person X, so I'll just read her over there."

Also, my charming personality comes complete with compulsive neatness disorder -- I can't stand to have dishes in my sink (thanks, mom =\ ), I can't stand to have too many windows open on my desktop (hence only one IRC channel at a time usually), and I can't stand looking at my friends list and seeing tons and tons of names on it.

So I guess all I'm saying is, people have lots of reasons for unfriending people that can be completely non-personal. I even unfriended someone accidentally once, because I clicked the wrong button and didn't realize it until a few days later when a post from the person I thought I had unfriended showed up on my friends page.

It's Sunday afternoon and I'm sick and I feel bad enough for both of us. So, you know. Feel better. =)

[fable.livejournal.com]

Um. Just to throw in my two cents here, because I've been cutting down my friends list lately (and have had people take me off *g*). The ones I took off have been people I respect, and like (or I wouldn't have put them on in the first place), and would have liked to get to know better. But some of their interests changed, or some of my interests changed, or there just wasn't time to keep up, and they were the ones I'd had the least contact with. It wasn't anything personal, and I hate to think that they might've taken it that way. But, yeah. LJs a combination of too many things to really make sense, isn't it?

So, don't feel bad, or like there you did that caused this person to drop you. Because you're much too nice and funny and talented for that to have happened. *g*