I wonder, though, if maybe people read too much into the technical aspect of who is friended and who isn't.
Which, of course, is why I feel so silly about it. But I'm human, and being human I worry about silly things sometimes. Wish I didn't, though. Argh.
The reason I don't friend a lot of people is because I look at my own friends list and think, "Whoa, that's a lotta names. Kaneko already friended Person X, so I'll just read her over there."
Which is an excellent point. Still, when a list has been pared down and it's still over the 120 mark, ya gotta wonder. I think I'm just at a paranoid point in my biorhythm cycle. ;-)
It's Sunday afternoon and I'm sick and I feel bad enough for both of us. So, you know. Feel better. =)
Thank you for responding; I feel a bit better about it, now that eight or so hours have passed since my initial freak-out. And your points are good ones - removing someone as a friend isn't always personal. Feels like it, but it ain't necessarily so.
I can't do much for you in return except send sincere wishes that you're feeling better soon!
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Date: 2002-10-06 05:05 pm (UTC)Which, of course, is why I feel so silly about it. But I'm human, and being human I worry about silly things sometimes. Wish I didn't, though. Argh.
The reason I don't friend a lot of people is because I look at my own friends list and think, "Whoa, that's a lotta names. Kaneko already friended Person X, so I'll just read her over there."
Which is an excellent point. Still, when a list has been pared down and it's still over the 120 mark, ya gotta wonder. I think I'm just at a paranoid point in my biorhythm cycle. ;-)
It's Sunday afternoon and I'm sick and I feel bad enough for both of us. So, you know. Feel better. =)
Thank you for responding; I feel a bit better about it, now that eight or so hours have passed since my initial freak-out. And your points are good ones - removing someone as a friend isn't always personal. Feels like it, but it ain't necessarily so.
I can't do much for you in return except send sincere wishes that you're feeling better soon!
Thanks again. :-)